"And I will not be paying for the training of new oncologists, because of the questionable tone in a funding request ad/letter I experienced"

This is not rational. I guess, I can at least hope that in the aggregate, the negative impact of people's petty irritations will wash out to zero...
However, this is not how things work, as probably any engineer with experience can tell you.

"Sometimes you have to hold your nose and do the right thing anyway." - me, a while back